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Win or lose in the first 5 minutes of a job interview

Type by Franke James;  Vise photo ©istockphoto.com/AndrewJohnson

The first five minutes of any job interview are critical in the selection process. For candidates seeking employment at a job fair, an initial interview with a company may last only five minutes.

BY JOHN A. CHALLENGER

A job seeker has to be qualified in order to get the job but there will always be several other people who are equally qualified as far as the interviewer is concerned. In the end, you will be hired because the interviewer personally likes you the best, not necessarily because you are the most qualified in the field of candidates. And many interviewers, especially in a job fair situation, will know whether or not he or she likes you the best within the first five minutes!

First impressions are vital, knowing that the interviewer will be speaking with several candidates within a short period of time. If you do not make a good impression immediately, the chances are that you will not be able to recover, however excellent your qualifications are for the job. It is a sobering thought to the average job seeker. It means that you have little margin for error in presenting yourself. More…

How can I analyze crime if I’m stonewalled?

Headline by Franke James; Detective illustration ©istockphoto.com/DanielVilleneuve

Dear Office-Politics, I work at a police department. I am in a “non-sworn” position. My job is to analyze crime – identify crime series/trends/patterns, do tactical and strategic analysis, etc. I am a department of one which makes things difficult as I don’t automatically have anyone who “Has my back”. And I’m dealing with different “Teams” of people – like patrol, detectives, problem oriented team -etc. I have been told by others that they see me as intelligent and passionate about my job. But I feel some of the detectives (one in particular) stonewall me – and then the other detectives always have his back….

How do you get back up?

Headline by Franke James; Man with cement parachute ©istockphoto.com/blamb
A while back, I received a distressed email from Ken, a young manager at a high-tech company.
Ken and I had never met, but he had read my first two books and had done his best to apply the ideas and practices of Extreme Leadership to the way he’d led his team. To their culture, their work ethic, their camaraderie. When necessary, Ken told me, they would band together and work hard — 10 to 20 hours a day at times — to solve a problem or meet a pressing need. Ken’s wife would cook food for everyone and bring it to the office. They felt like a family, he said, committed to doing great work and devoted to one another’s success. No one ever complained, least of all Ken. At one point, he’d even forgone his bonus so his employees could collect theirs.

How do I deal with angry female coworker?

Headline text by Franke James, MFA.; Head with target ©istockphoto.com/MirekP

Dear Office-Politics, I have a coworker that has done everything in her power to get under my skin and a lot of time I feel like there is very little I can say because I am afraid it will be seen by HR or others as me being the Macho guy. She promoted herself to our level and has only a high school degree. She yelled at me today in front of a lot of other people and I just walked away. But I think it is time for me to take action and register the fact in writing. Understanding that I have to communicate with her what should I do. I wish I could look for another job but the economy is not good now. How do I deal with an angry black woman?

Risky Hire after sex harassment query at interview; response by J. Glueck Bezoza

Collaged layout by Franke James, MFA.; fisheye woman ©istockphoto.com/Sharon Dominick elephant photo ©istockphoto.com/rusm

Dear Office-Politics,

I‘m a recently hired college grad, and I was asked back three times during the interviewing process. On the third time I hadn’t prepared the night before, and I was on the train three stops away trying to conjure up good questions. I recalled one really good one my sister suggested. I was supposed to research it on the web, but I decided to just ask the question. So I asked “Have there been any incidences of sexual harassment?” hoping to get insight on how they would handle a situation. It was a last minute question that turned into a bad idea. I’ve been in sexually charged workplaces before. I’ve been blatantly ogled, and been told sexually suggestive things. I never reported anything. I deal with those things daily; it bothers me, but I can’t change people.

Risky Hire after sex harassment query at interview; response by Marty Seldman

Collaged layout by Franke James, MFA.; Fisheye woman ©istockphoto.com/Sharon Dominick Spider photos ©istockphoto.com/Antagain

Dear Office-Politics,

I‘m a recently hired college grad, and I was asked back three times during the interviewing process. On the third time I hadn’t prepared the night before, and I was on the train three stops away trying to conjure up good questions. I recalled one really good one my sister suggested. I was supposed to research it on the web, but I decided to just ask the question. So I asked “have there been any incidences of sexual harassment?” hoping to get insight on how they would handle a situation. It was a last minute question that turned into a bad idea. I’ve been in sexually charged workplaces before. I’ve been blatantly ogled, and been told sexually suggestive things. I never reported anything. I deal with those things daily; it bothers me, but I can’t change people.

Don’t Be Fooled by Myths About Job Market

Photo collage by Franke James using Photo of Happy Face Man ©istockphoto.com /narvikk and Fire photo ©istockphoto.com/Scott Leman

Lately, there have been a growing number of stories about the double-dip recession in light of bleak economic reports on factory orders and
For the job seeker all of this negative news begins to mount until it feels that the search for employment is entirely hopeless. Job seekers may have acquaintances telling them “XYZ company just laid off 500 people, I would not apply there.” Or, ‟You will never find a job in the telecommunications industry, it is the weakest sector in the economy.” Pretty soon so many people are fostering these myths that they become easy to believe.