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"The Blame Game"
I have worked in many companies seeing the same problems. Mostly where I work, I always encounter homosexual people. There is always a small percentage everywhere. They all have the same problem of accusing me for their problems and I am just tired of it. I know they are really blaming themselves, and are angry at themselves, but they always tell on me when I stand up for myself. I always have to talk to a manager or someone higher up for it.
I have a decent relationship with my co-workers, some really great, some decent with people that suffered from verbal abuse, or a divorce from their parents before, or any family problems they had. I am not the nicest, but I never start trouble with others. I just wanted to know, how do I deal/cope with this problem without getting into a talk with the higher up people because of the verbal abuse I get from their anger with themselves? I get blame, I get verbally abusive language, and everything I don't want to deal with. Thanks
My mother often
said, "the faults we see in others are those we find in ourselves."
I detect that at work here.
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