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<\/p>\nDear Young Vice President,<\/p>\n
Now you know what the expression “loose lips sink ships” means. You made a mistake by revealing your salary, and now you’re being attacked.<\/p>\n
Lesson #1: don’t discuss money at work. Ok, you can say “I got this burrito for $3 and it’s delicious!” But beyond lunch deals, avoid discussing dollars. People get weird around money, religion, politics, sex. Don’t discuss any of these topics at work.<\/p>\n
I understand your desire to bond with your co-workers, but if you’re on the executive path, you must bond lightly. You aren’t one of the gang here. Join a networking group like www.BNI.com<\/a> or form a mastermind group (see the worksheet in the Cool Resources section of www.RulesForRenegades.com<\/a>) –this is where you’ll find the camaraderie you seek. You’re either a worker or an executive. You’ve chosen the latter–and management has too. Now it’s time to be polite and warm, but not reveal much about yourself. You’re going to be a perpetual target if you do.<\/p>\n Instead excel at your job, identify the other high achievers, and help them rise up in the organization. In time, a fresh gossip topic will arise, and your salary will be old news. Start noticing what is terrific about your co-workers and let them know. Appreciate someone sincerely every day, whether over email, in person, over the phone. Be sincere. They’ll join your side if another battle erupts.<\/p>\n Thanks for writing to Office Politics.<\/p>\n Best regards,<\/p>\n Christine Comaford-Lynch, Author, <\/strong>Rules for Renegades<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n![\"cover](\"\/images\/RFR_100.jpg\")
<\/a>New York Times bestselling author Christine Comaford-Lynch<\/strong> is CEO of Mighty Ventures<\/a>, an innovation accelerator which helps businesses to massively increase sales, product offerings, and company value. She has built and sold 5 of her own businesses with an average 700% return on investment, served as a board director or in-the-trenches adviser to 36 startups, and has invested in over 200 startups as a venture capitalist or angel investor. Christine has consulted to the White House (Clinton and Bush), 700 of the Fortune 1000, and hundreds of small businesses. She has repeatedly identified and championed key trends and technologies years before market acceptance. Christine\u2019s popular column on www.BusinessWeek.com\/SmallBiz<\/a> launched in January 2007.Christine has led many lives: Buddhist monk, Microsoft engineer, geisha trainee, entrepreneur, and venture capitalist. Her triumphs and disasters are revealed in her New York Times (and USA Today, Wall Street Journal, BusinessWeek, and Amazon.com ) bestselling business book: Rules for Renegades<\/a>: How to Make More Money, Rock Your Career, and Revel in Your Individuality. The book is available at all major retailers, the Office-Politics bookstore<\/a>, or via www.RulesForRenegades.com<\/a>.Christine has appeared on CNN, CNBC, MSNBC, FOX Business Network, PBS, CNET and is frequently quoted in the business, technology and general press at large. Stanford Graduate School of Business has done two case studies on her and PBS has featured her in three specials (Triumph of the Nerds, Nerds 2.0.1, and Nerd TV ). CNET has broadcast two specials covering her unconventional rise to success as a woman with neither a high school diploma nor college degree. Christine believes we can do well and do good, using business as a path for personal development, wealth creation, and philanthropy.<\/p>\n