{"id":203,"date":"2007-09-10T11:56:35","date_gmt":"2007-09-10T15:56:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/officepolitics.com\/advice\/?p=203"},"modified":"2007-09-10T11:56:50","modified_gmt":"2007-09-10T15:56:50","slug":"i-cant-stand-the-backstabbing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.officepolitics.com\/advice\/i-cant-stand-the-backstabbing\/","title":{"rendered":"I can&#8217;t stand the backstabbing&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Office-Politics,<\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t stand the backstabbing of the general public. I have now become self employed&#8230; I refuse to stab myself in the back.<\/p>\n<p><em>Protecting my Backside<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>OFFICE-POLITICS REPLY BY DR. JOHN BURTON<\/strong><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/images\/burton.jpg\" alt=\"dr. john burton\" align=\"left\" style=\"padding:5px 10px 10px 0\"  \/><\/p>\n<p>Dear &#8220;Protecting my Backside&#8221;,<\/p>\n<p>While it is difficult to stab oneself in the back, you need to be aware of the injuries that are common to the self-employed; shooting yourself in the foot and falling on your sword.<\/p>\n<p>Dr. John knows both of these well, since I am self employed too. With no one else as part of the organization I have only myself to blame every time something goes wrong.<\/p>\n<p>When a contract falls through, or a client looks at my proposal with all the interest of an Alaskan talking to a refrigerator salesperson &#8211; I look down and see the smoking gun in my own hand.<\/p>\n<p>I have not reached the point of falling on my sword yet, but every month-end when the inflow of cash is overwhelmed by the inflow of bills I am tempted to put an end to it all and look for a nice safe organization where all I have to worry about is the occasional back-stabber.<\/p>\n<p>Thanks for writing to Office-Politics. Good luck in your solo flight. <\/p>\n<p>Dr. John Burton<\/p>\n<p><em><br \/>\nDr. John Burton LL.B. M.B.A. M.Div. Ph.D. is an ethicist, mediator, lawyer and theologian. He has taught alternative dispute resolution at Queen&#8217;s Law School and Ethics at the Schulich School of Business. John was recently located in Prince Rupert, B.C., Canada, working with Canada&#8217;s aboriginal communities. He is now teaching at UBC, Okanagan Campus.<\/em><\/p>\n<hr>\n<p><em><br \/>\nPublication note: This letter was originally published in 2002. We are republishing the best letters from Office-Politics and integrating them with our blog format.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Office-Politics, I can&#8217;t stand the backstabbing of the general public. I have now become self employed&#8230; I refuse to stab myself in the back. Protecting my Backside OFFICE-POLITICS REPLY BY DR. JOHN BURTON Dear &#8220;Protecting my Backside&#8221;, While it is difficult to stab oneself in the back, you need to be aware of the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-203","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-backstabbers","category-office-politics"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.officepolitics.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/203","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.officepolitics.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.officepolitics.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.officepolitics.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.officepolitics.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=203"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.officepolitics.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/203\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.officepolitics.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=203"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.officepolitics.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=203"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.officepolitics.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=203"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}